Family violence is a tragic reality for people of all
backgrounds and income levels. Understanding the different aspects of violence and acknowledging that it is never acceptable is the first step in getting help.


Partner abuse can result in medical bills, lost work time, serious injury, even death. Each year in the United States, millions of people- mostly women - are abused by their partners. But violence impacts
more than the immediate victims. Many children who see their mothers get hurt develop emotional problems, grow up to be abusive, or believe themselves somehow responsible for the abuse. This makes violence a family problem.


Family violence has many forms. It ranges from verbal or emotional abuse, to acts of physical abuse such as hitting or slapping. The types of violence are:

Emotional abuse - Using comments to make someone feel bad, or lower a person's self esteem; using mind games.


Threats and intimidation - Threatening to harm children, other family members, or him/herself.


Economic abuse - Withholding money; keeping a partner from getting or keeping a job.

Sexual abuse - Inappropriate or dangerous sexual conduct.

Physical assault - Hitting, punching, choking, pulling hair, and kicking; use of weapons.

Property destruction - Breaking furniture or windows; damaging the car.


Because family violence progressively gets worse, early intervention and prevention are important. Everyone can play a part in preventing family violence. If someone you care about is a victim
of abuse, or is being abusive, and you want to offer assistance, find a safe, private place to talk honestly and openly. Share your concern
for the person and encourage the individual to speak to someone who works with victims of domestic violence or abusers.